We have a three “slide under the bed” plastic boxes full of court and child support documents! From the restraining orders that started in 2003 to the most current bullshit that started in 2021. We also have the court paper work from the biological father of the oldest child of the ex-wife because him and my husband were both court ordered to pay child support for this child.
Even with all the court documents and documents from Child Support Enforcement showing three children were listed as defendants, Child Support swears that my husband has not paid support for this child. There is a court order from 2011 that we filed the motion to have the oldest child of the ex-wife removed from child support because she had aged out. That motion was granted and it plainly states that the child support obligation goes to two children from three children.
Child Support Enforcement made notes in their own system stating “Ords Ca For J (Oldest daughter), K (Middle daughter) & B (Youngest son) @ $150.00/W Eff 04/14/2005”. We also have a notarized letter from the ex-wife discussing child support and visitation. It states “his three children J, K & B”. We have screenshots from a chat on the website for Child Support Enforcement were the case worker states “The support order was established for three children”.
There’s so many documents that state that three children were listed in the child support order/obligation. From the court papers to child support documents and even from the ex-wife herself but, now they are all saying that my husband never paid any support for this child. My favorite note from Child Support Enforcements system is when the CP, AKA the ex-wife called them to ask for a credit to be added to my husbands order because her oldest child was living with us at the time. It states “Recd Fax Ltr From CP 10/11/07 Req Mod As NCP Has Had Child J In His Custody As Of 7/29/07. Cp Wants To Give NCP (my husband) Credit Also For That Time”.
How the hell does a person get credit in support payments if it’s said that the person was never making support payments for that child?!?! Child Support Enforcement and the ex-wife swear that my husband has never paid any support payments for this child yet, the ex-wife is calling Child Support Enforcement and asking them to add a credit to my husband’s obligation because he has had this child living with him for a period of time. Make it make sense!!
Now, we had custody of her because she had run away from home and the ex-wife did not want her living in her home at the time. She said she was causing to many issues in the home and she didn’t want to deal with it anymore. The ex-wives father tried to have her live with him but, that didn’t work out either. So, we agreed to take custody to see if we could possibly get this kid to start acting right. It lasted about a year….
Along with everything from the courts and child support enforcement stating that my husband had been paying support for this child, she also mysteriously had his last name when she started school. Without my husband knowledge or permission. He did not adopt her, he did not agree to a name change and her biological father never did either.
I am so sick and tired of the ex-wife not being held accountable for fraud, getting away with getting child support payments from two men for one child and illegally signing my husbands name to her child’s birth certificate.
I’ve heard so many stories on this journey of the ex-wife/baby momma doing outlandish bullshit and getting away with it, it’s fucking disgusting! From lying to get a restraining order, keeping the kids away from an non-abusive dad and in a couple cases, moving the kids to a different state without dad’s permission. I know some dad’s who have fought in court for reasonable child support payments because the ex has lied about income, lied about not working or being able to work.
Let a father do anything close to what some of these woman have done and they would be in jail the next day. They would lose their visitation, their driver’s license and even their jobs. Unfortunately, I’ve seen it happen and it’s disgusting, it’s sad! So many dad’s just want to be apart of their children’s lives and so many get denied by a narcissistic ex-wife/baby momma!
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