We don’t live in our little hometown anymore, we moved 2500 miles away 15 years ago and don’t regret doing so! But, we still have close friends living in that not so little anymore town. And everyone there still likes to spread the gossip like they are in high school!
Now, the ex-wife still lives in this town and Im told she can’t stop talking. I think some of the shit she says, she says hoping that it’ll get back to me and my husband. Other shit she says..she says it praying that someone, anyone will believe her and help her spread the new rumor that she’s come up with.
I’ve heard some pretty good rumors here lately. My favorite at the moment is that I have been served with a lawsuit from her for slander and defamation. HAHAHA! In other words she is pissed that I am speaking the truth and showing the receipts. She’s always been able to spin the lies to make people believe her but, now that I am showing the proof, showing the court papers and fraudulent birth certificates…she can’t keep lying about it.
To be honest, we haven’t said shit for years. Literally years went by without a single word from my husband and myself. So, I wholeheartedly think she always thought that she’d be able to get away with it all. Surprise!! I am over it. I am no longer going to keep her secrets and fraudulent ways! I no longer have a reason to shut-up and keep my mouth shut. The kids are grown!
This has been going on for Way to long and everyone in the “system” has helped/allowed her to get away with it all. She lied to them also but, they could have easily looked into what she was saying to make sure it was true. They chose not to, they took her word on a fraudulent birth certificate and that a child belonged to my husband even though she was listed in a different child support order with her biological father.
We spoke about all the issues and lies in court many times but, it was all ignored. So, I sat back and waited for the right time to start speaking our truth with proof. As the kids got older and the two oldest started going no contact with their mother, I knew the time to start speaking out would be coming soon enough. Even after the kids hit 18 and moved away from their mother, I wasn’t sure if I should start talking or wait until they got a little older. Both of the two older kids have gone full blown no contact with their mother.
When I told the middle kid that I wanted to start this blog she was in full support of it. I have also talked to her about certain blogs before I post them, I don’t want her to get side swiped by anything and I also want to make sure she is ok with some of the things I have shared. I never want to share a story involving her, without her permission, I don’t ever want to do something that would upset her.
I sat down and had a serious conversation with my husband before I started this blog. I told him I wanted to do this but, that I would only do it if I had his support. He was ok with me telling our truth, he said we have dealt with all this the last 20 years quietly and it was time to speak out. Obviously he is supportive because I’m here typing this!
My besties have pushed me for the last three years to do this, to tell our truth and show the proof! They have heard it all, seen the court papers and know that my husband has been treated like a second class citizen in the system. They have heard the ridiculous stories and know what we have been put through the last 20 years.
We haven't said a word publicly like I am doing now. But, it’s time to say it loud and proud! It’s time to show the proof and to bring all the fraud to light. We want answers and we want someone to be held accountable for all of this! Who helped her obtain a fraudulent birth certificate? What case worker didn’t look up the fraudulent birth certificate when told about it numerous times? Why didn’t any judge we’ve been in front of since 2011 when her and her lawyer admitted, hold her accountable?
I am NOT going to shut-up. I am NOT going to stop until we get answers. I am NOT going to stop until someone is held accountable for has happened. I. AM. NOT. GOING. AWAY!
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