This one is going to go over like a sack of rocks thrown over a bridge….But, I’m gonna say it all anyways! The things the ex-wife has said to my husband, myself and her kids are absolutely fucking sickening! I have literally been left in tears after reading the emails she has sent her own daughter.
This is what a typical narcissist will do to family, their own children and anyone they can manipulate. Or anyone they think they can manipulate. The guilt trips, the name calling and the belittling is strong. The emails/text messages will go on and on. They will be non-stop and a lot of times they get worse as they go on.
The narcissist does not care how mean they are, they will go low and purposely try to hurt you at all cost. They will bring up anything from your past that they feel should cut you deep or that you should be embarrassed about. They will use other family members against you, especially the other parent. It is their number one goal, to hurt you, make you feel like shit and be embarrassed about yourself!
Arguing with a narcissist is like trying to heard cats, worthless. You won’t get anywhere, you won’t accomplish anything but giving yourself a migraine. They will fight with a wall, will never take accountability for anything they ever do or say and they think everything they say is the truth. They literally believe the bullshit they spew. They make up the stories and lies in their head, the repeat it so much that they actually believe it all to be true. Even when you have proof it’s all lies, they will still fight to try and prove it’s the truth. The ex-wife has even made fraudulent court papers and birth certificates to get people to believe her lies! I have the prove of that….
“You’re dead to me” then on to calling her own child a bitch and whore. I mean “Little bitch”. Because putting that “Little” in front of it made it not so bad..
She would go on absolute insane rants on FB about me. I was called every name in the book, fine I take being called a Bitch constantly as a compliment. But, when she called my oldest child a “retard”..I will fucking go to the ends of the earth to make sure everyone knows what kind of disgusting skank she is! And from what I am hearing from my not so little home town now days, everyone is starting to see it. And everyone is starting to distance themselves from her for a reason. Apparently, she thinks it’s because I am talking shit on her name. No, No Honey! Everyone sees her for the liar she is and the disgusting human she works so hard to try to hide.
The last call I got said “No one can stand her. Everyone is seeing her lies and is actually a little scared of her because she threatens to get you fired or start rumors about you if you disagree with her. And don’t anyone dare say anything remotely close to support for you and your husband!” People are losing respect for her, supposedly she can’t stop blaming me for everything thats gone wrong in her life and can’t stop talking shit about her own daughter for going no contact with her.
In her world I am the “home wrecking bar fly whore” that took her husband from her and she’s told everyone that would listen to her. Now mind you, she had been living with a man for almost a year when I came around but, Yea…I’m the one that ruined her marriage. She told the kids that I was going to “take” their dad away from them and start a new family that he would care more about. She told the kids that I would do everything in my power to keep them out of our lives, they would never know their dad again.
She literally blames my husband and I for the kids going no contact with her. But, after you read the emails below, I can assume you’ll see the real reason why. The middle daughter is talking her truth and we are super proud of her for using her voice after all these years. We’ve had many conversations about how her “mother” treated her, used her and is now trying to play it off like she never did anything wrong. Thankfully that little girl that was treated like a second class citizen by her own mother has grown into a woman that beat all the odds. She’s absolutely amazing. As a person, a wife, a mother, a daughter and a big sister! We seriously couldn’t be more proud of her.
After being told for years growing up that she would never amount to anything, she put herself through college and nursing school. She worked her ass off to make sure that she would never be the person her “mother” so badly wanted her to be. And she succeeded on so many levels! She is beyond an amazing mom, they way she loves her children is absolutely incredible to watch! The wife she has become makes my heart happy to see her and her husband together. And anytime our youngest daughters get sick, they say “Call ## and see what she says we should take and do!” LOL So, obviously she’s a great nurse!
I have never dealt with an absolutely disgusting, disrespectful, narcissistic woman like this one! The things that come out of her mouth are vile. The things she has taken time to type out to her own daughter is beyond disgusting, a mother should never ever even think these things, much less actually say them out loud. No wonder her daughter refuses to allow her into her and her children’s lives. I wouldn’t want that around my kids either, I couldn’t imagine any mother allowing that shit in their child’s life’s.
The emails attached are sent from the ex-wife to her own daughter! The emails with the K, is the emails back to her from the kid.
Who the Fuck talks to their own child like this….
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