Be ready to hear things about yourself that you never thought you would, things that you could write a book about and call it whatever you want because the lies were said but no one would believe them when you repeat them! Ask my family and friends…they still don’t believe most of the shit that has been said about me and my husband. Even though they have read it in the ex’s own words!
You will learn new things about yourself in all of this also. Like how you can hold your tongue, even when it’s bloody and how to respond to a narcissist in a way that won’t stop the ranting but it will shut up the narcissist (just for that rant session) because they know you’re not going to be a door mat! In reality that doesn’t really matter to the narcissist but it will make you feel better dealing with her.
My favorite lie about my husband was that he had a family out in the world that he didn’t know about. I’m not exactly sure how that works, if he didn’t know about this “family” how did the ex know? He never did DNA or anything like that for this unknown family but, damn it the ex swears it exists. However, he did do Ancestry DNA last year and no new kids have popped up like she swears there are.
Not only will the lies be told to the kids but she will also tell the whole world, or at least anyone on her social media pages. But, her favorite thing to do is to run to the kids to tell them you are lying about her and then throw more lies about you out there to them.
There will come a time when she can’t keep her lies straight and will either tell a different lie in place of one she’s told before, or she will change the lie to something different with new lies added. But, the lies will never stop. She’s not capable of not telling them, she’s not capable of being truthful. Because, if she is truthful then she will be seen for the person she really is and she can’t have that.
If she can talk to a friend or family member of yours, she most definitely will. She’ll even call your job to lie about you. Ask me how I know! HaHa! My boss got tired of hearing from her and told her point blank, the next time she tried to make a bullshit complaint about me, he would see to it that she had charges pressed against her. She actually stopped calling my office but, continued the lies on social media.
A lie she tells one person may not always match what she tells someone else. I swear this woman has a diary where she writes down what lie she tells to who….HaHa!
Oh and God forbid you write anything on social media that she can take and use “against” you or that she can make fit her narrative. She will absolutely do that and then will drag it out as long as she can. She will then email the kids and go off on how much of a liar you are, even after the kid calls her out for making something into to something it’s not.
It can get insane and it can be intense. It’s also very interesting learning new things about yourself and your life from someone that knows nothing of either. Say something she can use against you or your husband at a later date and she absolutely will. Post something on any social media, a meme you find funny and she’ll change it to use against you. Let one of the kids say something about what you and she’ll take that turning into something she can use.
I am going to add some screenshots of a post I made in reference to a family member. And you guessed it, the ex wife took it and turned into something she could talk shit about on social media and then sent an email to our daughter throwing an absolutely fit about it….
There is a lot more to the email she sent to our daughter but, I the same shit talking as always. My husband and I are shit people, I ruined her marriage, she hates us, blah blah blah…
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