Todays blog is going to be about mediation with DOR and CSE. Now, Child Support Enforcement will tell you that the mediators used for mediation are all through a “third party”. I never would’ve guessed that! The way they automatically go on the side of CSE and the way they treat the NCP (My husband) in the cases just as CSE does, like shit, I definitely thought they worked directly for CSE!
April 17, 2008 was the first motion we filed to go to mediation to have the child removed from support payments, she is not my husband’s biological child and her biological father has a child support order against him for her.
We filed again on October 30, 2009. Denied. Next motion filed on September 16, 2010, again on February 21, 2011 both denied. The last motion was filed on May 25, 2011 and that motion was finally granted on October 24, 2011. All of these motions where in regards to a child being listed as a dependent on my husband’s child support order and the fact that this child was already listed in a different case with her biological father. Remember, a case worker with Child Support Enforcement made notes in their system/case in 2006 stating that they found that the child is in fact listed in two different child support cases. Yet, any time this was brought up it was ignored by the mediators. Over and over and over!! When a mediator was asked what else we should do, how to get the child removed from this child support order, she stated that “Its not possible because he’s not paying support for her”. Explain to me why she was then removed in 2011 because she had emancipated the year before. But, they said she couldn’t be removed because my husband wasn’t paying child support for her.
Another mediator advised us that it wasn’t the same child listed on two different child support orders/case because the last name was different!! Are you kidding me!?!?! Yes, it’s different, because the ex wife used a fraudulent birth certificate, also brought to CSE attention on numerous occasions and child support enforcement helped her do it! And if you look at the biological fathers case/court records, her last name does actually change to my husbands last name in 1995/96. Once again, no one can give us answers. Or rather they don’t want to answer because that will make them guilty of embezzlement for six years.
I got all the records from Child Support and in those records in 2006, a case worker wrote in the notes of their own system that this child was in fact listed in two different open cases and even listed the biological fathers name and case number in the notes. So, they can’t keep the lie up that this is something that “Just can’t happen”. Well, I believe you are full of shit sir!
We filed a Notice of Related case on numerous occasions and it was completely ignored by the mediators. All the information on the biological father was given to the mediator and asked to investigate it. She of course ignored that request.
So, who is going to be held accountable for this? What department is going to fix it? I am not going to stop talking about this, I am not going to let this just sit and be pushed off by some case worker anymore. I am not going away!! I want an audit done, I want a full blown investigation into how this happened, why this happened and what they plan on doing to fix it! Until then..Buckle up! The kids are all grown and I’ve got all the time!
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